星期五, 1月 23, 2009

發脾氣

阿b呢兩日既脾氣好大~~~禽日返playgroup既時候~~~因為見到有小朋友畫畫~~~阿b又想拎支筆~~~mama就話唔可以~~~叫ms. chan另外俾一支筆先畫~~~點知ms. chan話要排隊~~~唔可以俾第二支筆~~~阿b就大發脾氣~~~mama初初以為佢只係扭一下就會去玩第二樣~~~點知~~~阿b好似傻左咁~~~完全唔聽mama講~~~自己係地下碌黎碌去~~~大吵大喊~~~未見過阿b咁樣發脾氣~~~以前阿b得唔到既野~~~唔會咁堅持~~~亦都唔會咁樣發脾氣~~~而家~~~唔同左啦~~~

今日又係咁樣~~~阿b一路都拎唔到雪櫃上既磁石~~~因為唔夠高~~~點知今日拎到最低排既其中一個~~~之後拎出廳~~~dada同mama仲讚阿b高左~~~於是~~~阿b又走入廚房~~~打算拎第二個~~~點知~~~拎唔到~~~扁晒嘴走出黎~~~我地就叫佢等高d先再拎啦~~~阿b又走入去再試~~~都係拎唔到~~~如是者~~~試左幾次都唔得~~~阿b就喊住走出黎~~~mama就同阿b講~~~而家拎唔到~~~咪遲d再試過囉~~~點知~~~阿b又自己發脾氣~~~一路係咁喊~~~阿b應該好大挫敗感~~~我掙扎左好耐~~~唔知應唔應該幫佢~~~最後~~~都係冇出手~~~男孩子係咪應該遇多d挫折先好呢~~~動不動發脾氣~~~我就幫佢~~~會唔會變左依賴呢~~~
mama好煩惱~~~耍努力諗下~~~尋求一下意見先得~~~
阿b~~~希望你明白啦~~~唔係發脾氣就有用架~~~~~~

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6 則留言:

SamSam 提到...

係呀...有時真係唔知應該點教佢地...一來又唔想佢成日喊...咁唔開心...但係..次次就佢又會寵壞佢..好深的一個課題...

Mug師奶 提到...

我都要深入d再諗諗喱個問題先得.......十六喱2日又係勁扭計, 成日得唔到就係到典來典去....唉, 頭痛兼頭痕 ~~~

亞b果張跪係到, 好似係到同你認錯咁樣.....hahahaaaa

ps 亞b個頭仲有無事啊?!

Fairy 提到...

trouble two 係咁架啦

貓貓豬豬 提到...

我覺得咁樣做好好呀, 小朋友要鼓勵佢地嘗試, 做到有讚賞, 就可以建立自信, 如果唔係, 就會失去自我認同及變得依賴, 做阿媽真係辛苦, 有時又要忍心, 又要關心, 好高難度呀!

匿名 提到...

好耐冇嚟啦!呢個階段阿B唔識"講",所以佢用喊呀,發脾氣既方法表達自己,你可以嘗試向佢講出佢想表達既嘢,e.g"阿b係咪想攞磁石呀?"等佢知道你明白佢既感受,亦都等佢知道唔係用喊就得到你既幫助,係要用啲啱既方法,e.g指呀,拍你呀..媽咪都唔洗太force佢發脾氣呢個問題,relax

匿名 提到...

哈哈!我係華華呀~唔記得打